There are no specific places where women hang out. Eligible and desirable women can be found anywhere. Most men would assume that the obvious place is a club or a bar. Maybe or may be not. This article discusses about the possible locations and suitable time where guys have greater chances of picking up women. The places listed here are by no means exhaustive and they change with time. Take for example, video cassette rental stores.
They used to be ideal places for flirting. But now with the advancement of technology where movies can be easily downloaded from the Internet, this is no longer an option. It is all up to one’s imagination and hope the places highlighted in this article can inspire readers to come up with some unusual places they can think of. Ideal places are of course in situation when people are more likely to be in a relaxed state.
(1) Grocery store
Women can also get picked up at places as unusual as a grocery store. Most women think a grocery store is a place to bump into eligible men. Most likely only a single man would buy groceries alone! A great flirting area is the fresh produce department. Half the people there don’t understand how to cook the stuff they buy; the other half does. Figure out which group you’re in and start flirting with the other. It is never inappropriate to ask someone how to steam cauliflower or artichoke. If someone thinks you are flirting just turn to another person and ask a 2nd question, totally throwing your prospective flirt off-balance.
(2) Book shop
Most men would never think that a book shop is a place where you can find lots of single women especially on weekends. For a change, some women who have gotten tired of late night outs would prefer to relax with books. Such women if single would be very eligible for a relationship provided you are able to recognize them.
(3) Work place
A word of caution here is in your attempt to reaching out to women you may go overboard and jeopardize your job. The best way would be to become popular among your female colleagues. Say nice things to them about their work decisions or skills they use in the job. Be very natural in doing so.
(4) Political action groups, committees, or organizations
These are the ideal places for flirting. People are excited. They care a lot. How busy can they be if they have time to attend all these meetings? Flirting here must be a bit bolder than usual because everyone is doing it. Style and originality, as well as who you know, can add enormously to your clout. You could also collect petitions. Stand on the street with a pal to show you are not up to something. Set up a table and chairs. They are good props for flirting. If you live in a big city where you can’t set up your little table, then find out when is the next demonstration (for a cause you are not embarrassed to believe in) and join in the march.
Most ideal combination: a 3rd party or subject focus, common interests and a chance to flirt. If your company will pay or contribute to the costs, take as many seminars as you can. These are the hotbeds of romance.
(6) Night classes
Better to attend one-shot lectures. Weekend courses are much more suitable for flirting.
(a) Dance class
Dance classes are great for meeting women, because in many dance classes, the women are going to outnumber you ten to one. Depending on what kind of dance class you take, the women in it may also be extremely hot.
(b) Yoga class
Yoga classes are also great for meeting women. If you do sign for a yoga class, remember that many of the women you meet are probably going to be “New Age” women, You may need to read about some “New Age” subjects so that you can have something to talk about.
(7) Religious organizations.
They are back in vogue, and are really responding to the growing single and liberated populations. Socializing has become one of the tools they use to attract new members. Most religious groups aggressively go after new members by trying to fill the community’s need for a meeting ground. You should shop around for the organization that fits your moral and social needs and participate as much as you can in their activities.
(8) Dry cleaners
Go at the busiest times, from 5 pm to 7 pm and on mid-Saturday morning. Choose one that has 24-hour service; successful flirts say that this attracts the kind of dynamic people who will respond to your flirting. If you want someone who’s a bit low profile, try those do-it-yourself tumblers. But your clothes will look better, and you will have a more attractive partner on your arm, if you stick to the professional dry cleaners.
(9) A dance club, bar, gym or park
The chances of finding women are higher at these places but you will face more competition here. A gym is still a better place to practice your flirting skills. Women at gyms put their figures at display by wearing skimpy attire or other outfits. Out of the many prospective women there you can choose the one with the right curves at the right places.
(10) Coffee shop
It is one of the popular places for women to hang out and relax. These women are not the party types and could even have that intellectual aura around them. They could be as lonely as many intellectual women are, yearning to have someone with whom they could share their bright ideas and thoughts. If you are a conversationalist such women would fall for you almost instantly. Having an intelligent conversation with a man for them could be orgasmic!
(11) A bar or a pub
The best place to look for a one-night stand. You need to find like-minded women for the purpose that often lurks around such places.
(12) Meeting her online
Dating sites are the best places to connect with like-minded women. You can have the choices on the kind of relationship you want – romantic or sexual or simple relationship. Write an interesting profile of yourself, mention the interesting aspects, what you are looking for in life and the women you would like to go around with. Write enticing words about yourself such as “I am a fun-loving person, my only wish is to travel to the most exotic places with someone as adventurous and wild as me!” which is better than “I am a fun-loving guy who loves traveling.”
It should be some consolation for all the helpless guys out there to know that there is one word that’s always worth including in any personal ad: “warm”. People who are described as warm are believed to be happy, sociable, wise and popular. Most important, include your photo which will definitely increase the chances of females responding to you.